Monday, 15 January 2018

Mum


It is with a heavy heart that we said goodbye to our mum at 4am this morning.
Mum was told in Feb last year that she had aggressive small cell lung cancer and she had chemo and came through really well then she was advised to have radiation and since then she has had a battle then about a month and half ago she was told that the cancer had come back in her liver,she had just started another lot of chemo last week.
She was tired and worn out from battling this horrid disease ,it was a relief that she went in her sleep the way she has always wanted to go and now she is in no more pain,i thought i was prepared for this but i can tell you no one is prepared when the end finally comes.
Rest in Peace mum i love you and will miss you as you were a friend as well as my mum.

I will take a break from blogging i know you will understand ,thankyou chooky for being a good friend and support.

cheers Shez xx

66 comments:

  1. Sending condolences to you, I feel your heavy heart as I too lost my dad two years ago whilst in my care. Your mum is at peace now and looking down on you from her new resting place called Heaven.
    Sending hugs, take a break and feel the peace she sends you.
    [aNNie]

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  2. So sorry to hear your sad news. Sending you heartfelt condolences and wishing you and your family all the best. Take the time you need. Love and hugs, Valerie

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  3. So sad to read this Shez. Sending love and hugs. xx

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  4. So sorry to read of your sad news. My condolences & thoughts to you & your family. Love 'n' hugs, xx

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  5. My heart goes out to you. Take care of yourself.

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  6. My condolences to you, Shez.
    The people we love always live in our hearts.
    Now take good care of yourself.
    Kisses

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  7. Dear Shez. Our hearts go out to you and your family at this sad time. Take care. Hugs Janice.

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  8. Such sad news Shez.... take care, you are in my thoughts.

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  9. I’m so sorry for your loss dear Shez..
    My deep condolences...
    It reminds me tha same story with my mum...
    A terrible battle with the monster...and after 6 month she past away..6 years ago..
    I know it’s very difficult for you...it still hearts me too..
    My thoughts to you and your family.
    Take care..
    Kisses
    Dimi...

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  10. Oh, dear Shez, I'm so sorry for your loss ! Please accept my sincere condoleances... I'm in heartful thoughts with you, and will light a candle for you. Mourning is a necessary and painful step. Take all the time you need, my friend. I'm sure you've got lovely memories of your dear mom, and these are precious & helpful... Then acceptance and peace at heart will slowly come, knowing that she'll always be with you...
    I lost my beloved mother 24 years ago (she was only 64). It was very hard, and I still miss her each and every day, but I'm at peace now, she's like an angel, protecting and guiding me...

    Take care, my friend.
    BIG (((HUG)))
    XOXOXO
    Nadine

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  11. So sorry to hear of your loss. It is never easy losing a parent; condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. Take care, thoughts are with you.

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  12. Hugs and kisses, Shez. Take care.

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  13. Dear Shez, my heart breaks for you and I don't think you are ever truly ready for such a loss. Take care my friends....lots of love to you all xxx

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  14. I am so, so sorry for your loss Shez. I know how it feels...no words can express the loss you feel. Blessings and prayers go out to you and your family.
    xx Karen

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  15. Oh Shez, I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. Sending you big gentle hugs sweetheart xx

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  16. Please accept my condolences at this sad time. My thoughts are with you.

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  18. I am sending hugs and prayers to you. God Bless you.
    xx, Carol

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  19. Dear Shez, I am deeply sorry for your big lost, which I personally know what sort of a deep gap in a heart, it is!!!!!!

    My condolences

    Nurdan

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  20. So sad to hear that you've lost your mother. Sends you condolences and warm thoughts. It's sad to take goodbye to those you love and that meant so much to one. Take your time. All good memories are becoming good and precious now. Take care!

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  21. I am so very sorry Shez - and so sorry that your sweet mother had to go through so much. Take care of you.

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  22. I am so, so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you and give you comfort during this difficult time. Sending big hugs.

    Lisa
    A Mermaid's Crafts

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  23. I am sorry for your loss, we are never ready to lose a loved one. She are now in a better place. I hope that resignation will come soon. We will be waiting here.

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  24. Oh Shez, I am so deeply sorry to read of your Mum's passing. Our hearts go out to you at this very sad time. Take the time to mourn your dear Mum Shez but try to remember the happy times in amongst it all. Sending love & hugs to you X0x0x0x0

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  25. So sorry, lost mine in 2005 to cancer prayers and hugs

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  26. Oh Shez... I just read this aweful news. I am soooo very sorry to hear about your loss. Losing your Mum is one of the hardest things in life that we all face. I’m sending BiG hugs to you and your family. RIP... xox

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  27. I am so very sad to read that your Mum has passed away. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hugs xx

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  28. I am so very sad to read that your Mum has passed away. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hugs xx

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  29. You’re never prepared, bless your heart! My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I’ll be thinking of you! XO

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  30. Sorry to hear this Shez. Your mum's story sound so much like what my mother went through. She's been gone 10 years now, and I still miss her. And no, you can never be prepared. No need to reply to this.

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  31. Thinking of you Shez and hold on to all those happy memories that you shared xx

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  32. Please know you and yours are in my prayers. May God fill you with his peace.
    I'll b e here when you come back.
    Hugs and Blessings (Numbers 6:24-27

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  33. So sorry for your loss Shez. you will have a lot of wonderful memories but you will still miss her..Thinking of you...

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  34. I am soooo very very sorry for your loss.....

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  35. So so sorry to hear of you loss. My thoughts are with you at this sad time.

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  36. So sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

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  37. Prayers for your family. I'm sure you have lots of wonderful memories. Remember those times, and forget the pain and bad times! ---"Love"

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  38. Shez, how very sorry I am. We don't really 'know' each other but as I read your post, I can sense the deep sadness and loss you feel. What a blessed daughter you are to have had such a mom who was so special to you and that you had such a relationship with. This is not something a lot of daughters have (myself included) so I hope that will bring you joy in the days ahead as your mourn the loss of your sweet mum.

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  39. I am so sorry! Losing your mother is always so difficult. I'm glad that she is no longer in pain.
    hugs,
    Jann

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  40. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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  41. You are all in my thoughts at this sad time. Your mum will always have a space in your heart and will continue to watch over you. xx

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  42. So sorry Dearest Shez to read about your Beloved Mum. Sending Love and Hugs from us all xo

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  43. Thinking of your family and you at this sad time... Hugs Maria XXX

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  44. My heart and prayers go out to you Shez, such a sad time.
    Hugs
    Faith
    x

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  45. I am so very sorry for your loss.

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  46. My deepest sympathies to you and your family , losing someone is never easy and we really can never fully prepare. Hugs .

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  47. you know I am always at the end of an email........its the least I can do..........XXXXXXXXX

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  48. Hi Shez, so sorry to see this post - hold onto those special memories. It does not get easier, I miss my mum every day. Be kind to yourself and go with the flow. Catch up next month xxx

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  49. Oh my dear Shez I am so sad to hear that your dear mum has passed over despite knowing that she is in a better place without pain or suffering. I can only begin to imagine how terrible you are feeling right now. I wish I could give you a big hug . Instead I send you many angel healing hugs. If you want to chat feel free to phone my lovely.

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  50. Oh my dear friend, you're in my thoughts and prayers, I am so so sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you....

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  51. Oh Shez, I am so very sorry to hear that you have lost your Mum. My heart goes out to you - you are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you love and hugs. Be good to yourself. I miss my Mum every day, but knowing she is watching over eases the pain. xx Karen

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  52. Hey sweetie, been thinking of you lots these past days... hang in there dear friend xx

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  53. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family

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  54. all my love to you my dear friend xxxxxx

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  55. Thinking of you Shez. Such a tough time.

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  56. Hope all's well and you are okay, sending Aussie hugs.xx[aNNie]

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  57. I am so sorry, Shez. I send you my deepest sympathy.

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  58. I am so sorry to read about your loss, my thoughts are with you...I lost my mum a long time ago, it is never easy, specially if you were close.
    They say that the person is alive as long as your memories are, it will help in the long run....
    Take care,
    xx

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  59. So very sorry for your loss. May your memories bring you comfort & may you find peace knowing she is no longer in pain.

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  60. I am so sorry, hugs to you.

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  61. I'm so sorry to read your sad news. And no, you are never prepared when it happens ...

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  62. So sorry to hear this sad news, love and hugs.

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  63. Oh Shez, I'm so sorry. Such a hard loss to bear and you are never ever ready for it. Be kind to yourself and treasure the happy memories of your mum. Xx

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